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Those questions seem to imply things about yourself and not to others.

If someone were to be very, very annoying, it would take some self-control or some complaints.

Pretending isn't always bad, it's only bad if you are really harming someone else by doing so.

Yes, but pretending to have self control and controlling yourself are two different things.

I never said anything about pretending to control yourself. Controlling yourself is a choice and a discipline.

Pretending is a choice and must be handled responsibly.

Not everyone feels the same way about "faking" not being necessary. Don't worry about it, though.