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Shout Out from the Real World! :)


Frost137

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Hello guys! ^^

If you had noticed, I haven't been on for awhile. I have been having a hard time in the dorm. Ehhhh.....

Friendship issues. D:

I have been around my best friend for awhile so this has been a rocky month. By what I mean by around my best friend, I mean like I have been around her so much that I didn't have the "me time." Or maybe we just realized that we were so different that we just got mad and stressed at each other.

Is it ok to be friends who are different from you? :/ Well, obviously yes because no one is exactly like you so really you probably would be a loner by now.... But my friend stresses over this. She's either pushing me away, trying to find ways to leave me, or we are just stressed.This problem wasn't caused because I am a brony but how we interact with others. She is an introvert, and I'm a semi-extrovert.

But then everyone around me has been telling me, "GET NEW FRIENDS! :)" The deans, my hall RA, my friend, yeah. The problem is, even though I am able to make friends it's just that living in the same dorm, going to a school where she is there, and knowing that she is there right here is rather stressful. All those memories and stuffs we did. :'(

It's hard for me because I have been around my best friend where it's just automatic, y'know? It feels like I'm beginning my own version of MLP: FiM with Season 1 Episode 1. It's rather difficult to befriend everyone right at the end of the school year especially when you and your schedule is different from everyone.

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I have been thinking about it. Should I join this other forum? It's called FizzyFamily by a guy on Youtube named Damon Fizzy. (I strongly recommend that kids under 12/13 shouldn't join or look up this place.) It's a site where all those teens who are depressed and do all sorts of jazz when they are depressed. Then, they allow swears! :o I highly not recommend it. I am really not that type of person who does all that but I've been there. But expanding my internet friend circle would be kind of cool. I have heard there are some bronies and pegasisters there! :D :D :D

But my best friend introduced me to it... :-| So would I just be doing that just cuz she's there? I dunno. My mind is weird, I don't understand it much. ....

But yeah. This is what's been going on for a while. Sorry for holding up some RP's! I'll see you guys soon.

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MLP Example:

  • Twilight Sparkle is an egghead.
  • Pinkie Pie is a party maniac.
  • Rarity is a perfectionist.
  • Fluttershy is... shy.
  • Applejack is a true friend.
  • Rainbow Dash is a jock.

Six different ponies can become the best of friends, no matter how obscure their personalities are.

Real Life Example:

I was best friends with a girl once for about three years. She soon asked me to be her boyfriend, and I was shocked. Not knowing what to do, I agreed. We dated for about two and a half years, but in that span, I quickly noticed of the many differences between me and her.

I was an introvert, she was an extrovert.

I was brown-skinned, she was white.

I was Democratic, she was Republican.

I was skinny, she was not.

I was tall, she was short.

I was a geek, and she was not.

She wanted to make love, and I was scared to...

And so on and so on and so on...

What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't let differences tear you apart. Ignore them, and continue being friends with her. Had I known this before, I probably would have still been best friends with her, but instead we just give awkward glances whenever we pass by one another.

Also, try not to force her into anything. As an introvert, I know my friends mean well when they try to cheer me up, but there are times when I just wanted to be left alone with my own thoughts.

As for joining another forum, I can't help you there. I've joined a few other forums, but never really got noticed. Accept for deviantART, where although I made many friends there, there were still people who made me feel deeply insecure, which is why I deactivated my account there. I'm really hoping that I could possibly stick with Canterlot.com. With a community of only Bronies, maybe this is the place where I can actually feel safe online.

Cheers~

Kodokuna Haisha

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I can tell there is a lot of emotion coming from the friendship Problem. Here's a quote that might make a bit of sense.

[colour=#181818]“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” [/colour]

[colour=#181818][/colour]Bob Marley

I can tell that she hurt you Frost but is it not true that it's worth it? Think about all the great times you've had. Don't force anything onto her but, be there for her. Eventually she'll come around. You just got to give her time. Maybe she's going through some trouble, maybe your going some other trouble. Whatever the case is, Time will fix it. After all Time spinner was named for one of my favorite Quotes. "Time heals all wounds."

For the forums I can tell from experience as a 1st Bass in my Jazz/Cadet Choir and as an avid Jazz listener that it can be a lot of Fun. Though sometimes it can get depressing and maybe even a bit odd (But hey we watch a show filled with Candy coloured Horses!) I'm also on a Pokemon forum called Marilland and so far I've had a blast! Jazz is something that a lot of people can enjoy.

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