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Rocky

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  1. 16 minutes ago, Rosewind said:

    I guess it might be awkward if she says "my boyfriend and I blah blah blah," but the main idea behind this communication is in its vagueness to avoid said awkwardness. There's a subtle exchange when it comes to communication with another person -- often there's another, different conversation going on below physical words; one ruled by tonality, body language, facial expressions, and situational context. These elements are not singular, and all harmonize as part of an unspoken symphony of communication. 

     

    Master this, and you will master talking to most people. A lot of folks are hard to communicate with, and that's fine. That's their problem, not yours.

     

    Dive in, take risks, make mistakes. Look back and see what works... or didn't. Don't be afraid to fail, because it's better to fail and learn than never try. Or don't try. It's on you and your own happiness if you want to share a relationship with someone. Women don't owe you anything.


     I see what you mean. Like I said, I haven't met a girl I wanted to get to know in years so, this is basically a whole new experience for me.. Once/if I've mustered up the nerve to go back and talk to her, I'll take what you've said into consideration. Thanks. (:


     So there was a wasp just casually chilling on the window in the bathroom.

    So I just casually drowned it in hairspray. 

  2. 2 hours ago, Rosewind said:

    I got'chu. Don't wanna come off like a creepy stalkerish type? Don't act like one. In fact, act normal. I love guys that are secure and don't seem like they're on trial when they're attempting normal conversation.

     

    Next time you're there, if she's working, ask her what she's into. Most women will detect the interest and will bring up the SO in conversation to let you know she's not looking or available. "So what do you like to do outside of work?" "My boyfriend and I like to go hiking."

     

    This conversation goes both ways. Her response can tell you a lot without words. If she replies with "Oh, I'm taking care of my three kids and work 15 hours a day. I hate my life." Well, there you go.

     

    Or...just don't do anything and hope you'll run into someone you connect with before you're pushing up daisies. Only frequent interactions will blossom friendship, and only from friendship can you grow a proper relationship.

     


    I see what you mean. I'm sure she would let on early if she was already in a relationship. I am pretty good at hiding emotions... I mean, that changes sometimes when a girl I am into is involved.  One thing I think of is what if she does reply with "My boyfriend and I blank blank"? I mean, it might get really awkward since she'll obviously know I am interested and she'll have basically just said no. I don't know if I'd know how to react to that..

  3. 8 hours ago, SymphonicFire said:

    No! I'm a blushing perverted young girl! Get it right Kouhai! 

     

    Senpai will be here for the updates! *brings box of tissues* 


     Well, you might be waiting a while for an update if there will even be one..

     Actually, you might be needing that box of tissues for when I tell you there isn't any more to the story..

     Edit: Wow I really sound like a downer today hehe...

  4. 7 hours ago, SymphonicFire said:

    Normies are adorable, so I'm blushing like a perverted old man even though I'm the complete opposite of that while I read your posts.

     

    :kissy:

    THERE IT IS! EPISODE ONE! 

    Senpai thinks you shouldn't try to be a regular. Mexican food is not great for the stomach if eaten very often. 

     

    If you do end up confessing, it doesn't matter if she accepts or rejects it, you'll be on her mind for the entire day. <3 

     

    Don't ask where that is from...I forgot. You can bet your butt it's from an anime though huehue.


    Sheesh what. I don't know how I feel about any of this haha. Wait, you're the complete opposite? So you're a non-perverted young girl who isn't blushing?

     

    6 hours ago, Tenkan said:

    I personally wouldn't let her know you fancy her until you know she's available.


     Of course. Baby steps, if I do take any steps at all with this..

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    19 minutes ago, DreamyMaple said:

     

    Ditto lol. 

     

    But come on! You gotta be willing to get arrested for love! How else is she gonna know you're serious!


     I think it might come off as seriously unstable.. 

    Heh  @SymphonicFire you're really into this, aren't you?

      I won't be able to get myself to talk to her again. I'm scared I'll seem like I'm trying too hard or something... I mean, I don't want to just start showing up there all creepy like and stuff.. I don't want to eat Mexican food all the time and if I don't order something then it'll be really creepy and obvious. I know I could just order a drink but she doesn't work the bar. Then what if she's already with someone? If not, I'm sure so many guys are trying to get with her and it's just uuuggghhhh

     I want to forget I even went to the restaurant last night.  x.x

  6. 2 minutes ago, SymphonicFire said:

    It should. It would be one of the greatest romantic stories told.


     Heh, yeah, I dunno if I'd expect something like that from me... I'm horrible at romantic things. 

     This is actually a little scary.. I haven't had the hots for someone in forever (my feelings for my ex girlfriend sorta faded midway through our time together so, it has been a while) and I don't know how to deal with it haha. It's especially scary since my ex asked ME out, and not the other way around as it probably should've been... So I've never asked anyone out before in my life. Never felt rejection..

     Yeah, scary.

  7. 5 hours ago, Tenkan said:

    Oh, man, in that case, that's awesome. Just be careful when it comes to safety and used machines, bro. 


    Absolutely! I always make sure I'm not buying a hunk of junk. 
     

    3 hours ago, Rosewind said:

    That's cool you got some help like that, so it all works out right?


     Yep, everything worked out. If I had taken my usual route home, I would've been stranded where there are no gas stations remotely close by. So yay for that or something.

  8. 25 minutes ago, Tenkan said:

    Wow, dude, that is an old bike. Maybe I missed the part, sorry, but don't you think of a getting a more modern bike? If price is an issue, you could get second-hand, of course.

     I collect vintage everything; Cars, motorcycles, clothing, music stuff, etc... It's just kinda my thing, you know?

     I mean, riding a modern bike would be more convenient and perhaps a bit more reliable but, I can't really see myself riding one. Money's not the issue, it's personal preference. Especially when it comes down to styling. I love the retro 70s colors and designs. As far as mechanical, I mean, it goes both ways: Older bike, you're more likely to be on the side of the road but usually have the ability to diagnose and fix it on the spot (granted you've got the tools); newer bike, you're much less likely to be on the side of the road but, if you are, you're most likely screwed. Especially with the fuel-injection systems and modern electrical.. Nope, it's vintage carburetors for me!


     Oh yeah, 90% of everything I buy is off Craigslist haha. Second-hand for life!

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  9. ABRIDGED STORY TIME

    Took my motorcycle to work today (25 minute drive). Just as I arrived, the bike started acting a bit funny. I didn't think much of it and went into work. 

     Keep in mind, this bike is from the 70s. Being as such, it doesn't have a lot of the gauges modern bikes have (like a fuel gauge, temperature gauge, etc..). 

     When I got out of work, things got interesting. I decided to check the oil and, of course, it's super low. A coworker gave me some oil and [BEGIN ABRIDGED VERSION] I overfilled the engine because I'm stupid and it took me an hour to drain it to the correct amount and I was a mess from the oil so then I left work and went about 4 miles and  (remember I said the bike was acting funny) then ran out of gas because there's no gas gauge and I keep forgetting to look inside the tank like seriously just my luck so then some super nice older guy walking his dog saw me on the side of the road and gave me some gas since he lived really close and I made it to a gas station and now I'm home. 

     Apparently abridged version means run-on sentence.      So yeah, overfilled oil because I'm stupid and then ran out of gas because I'm stupid.

  10. It sucks that I didn't get to sleep in at all this weekend because of the motorcycle class... I'm so beat. Luckily, we're going on vacation for a few days starting tomorrow. Hopefully I'll catch up on my sleep then.. 

     Meanwhile it's exactly 9:52 at the time of typing this and I should really be sleeping right now.

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