Hey there, if I may:
We do things every day that affect other people, often unconsciously -- often with pretty heavy consequences. Sometimes the slight is small; someone takes your parking space, or doesn't see you and claims the last bathroom stall. Someone cuts in front of you in line. Someone says something you find offensive. Someone feels comfortable with you and slanders your best friend, not knowing it's your best friend. Your coworkers set you up for failure and throw you under the bus. Hell, I just walked into my bakery last night after being gone on my weekend and the previous Baker did not respect my work space. Things were dirty, or rearranged weird. The products I needed to bake tonight came out cruddy because of how they were treated the previous night. I doubt he hunched over a pan thinking of ways to screw me over...at least I hope not.
People have a myriad of reasons for acting the way they do, and for making the choices they make. Nothing is more raw or apparent about the human condition of hamfisted communication than the internet. Yes, everything we do affects others. Yes, we should be polite and aware as we can. A lot of the places I personally frequent are pretty good at hiding potential spoilers for virtually anything. However, you are in charge of what content you consume. If you see the conversation turning toward something you haven't seen yet, you are in control of whether you read it or not by moving on from that conversation if it makes mention of something. You have to be your own spoiler alert sometimes, and this is especially true on the internet. A lot of media blogs I frequent tend to post spoilers in the titles of their clickbaity articles -- often from stuff that aired last night. My point is, you're in control of your own internet experience here. You'll find plenty of polite and aware folks, along with just as many that don't give AF what they're spurting out to the black abyss of the internet.
I enjoy you Patch, but the people of this little group did not deserve that response. This is definitely in the "aware" sector of people you'll meet on the internet, and you should give the people here that trust and respect -- as well as grace if there is a slip now and then. This thread was originally locked for a year or two over some technological concerns by the previous Admin team. It was more robust than it is now, almost on par with an active chat on Discord. I chose to unlock this thread and revive its contents because it was a fun place for like-minded people to gather together to talk about anything, in a slower interim than a normal chat room. It's as much a part of Canterlot as the people who created it.
Please respect the discussion, as well as everyone here, regardless of whatever pet peeve may occur in happenstance.
If you'd like we can chat about this more in PMs...otherwise, please continue the discussion. I'm totally going to watch some anime today and veg out before I bake again tonight, then work all night, then drive 2 hours north first thing in the morning to get some painful medical treatment done. Spoiler alert on my life.