In relationships, you need to be willing to change to try and make it work, however if you or your partner are trying to change your entire being, recognize that that is not healthy. You shouldn't have to change who you are on the inside to make someone love you, and if you do, then maybe the person your pursuing just isn't for you.
On the other side of this, when entering a relationship, platonic or romantic, you need to realise that your not gonna get along 100%. And it becomes both of your responsibilities to deal with that,whether it means letting go on certain things or learning to compromise. My way or the highway is almost always gonna lead to fighting. Try to talk things out, be thoughtful. Don't just stone wall the person.
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