I know it's not all about me, and I never intend it to be. But I have participated in many rps that mix first and third person and honestly, it's never felt like anyone's hijacking anything - it's just a sign of someone's personal preference when writing. It also seems that your analogy of reading a book is a bit flawed - heard of the "omniscient third person" point of view? Regardless of whether "I" or "he" is used, the book does follow one single, main character. If anything, that just supports my point that POV doesn't change who the main character is, it's just a style. And I have good reasons for following my style. I should say at this point, please don't take my arguing as a sign of disrespect. It's not my intent to overhaul anything or make everyone do things my way - you're the boss, and I fully respect that. This is just the sort of thing I particularly enjoy talking about.