I am aware of this, it is just the title of the topic that gets me, to be honest, and the idea of gender bending often has to do with transexuality or transgender, etc. So, while I am an open-minded individual, there are others, say, children on this website, who may not assertain that difference. I was not saying I see this as inappropriate. I was saying if it should have any sort of relation to sexual orientation....that is all. Forgive me if I sounded cruel, judgemental or ignorant.