StarStorm

same my parents use one another as insults ("do you wanna be like your father?"). but i love them both. even though my mother is the only other cause than myself for my problems

Ooh, got cha.. I know what you mean. Psychologists would probably agree that I turned out how I did because of the way I was raised because the environment that I grew up in is unfortunately stereotypical for someone of my personality, however, I really think that some people concider things problems or misfortunes that arent so bad. Like, it helped me get to where I am today and grow as a person and know my place. My parents do that too.. The whole "don't do that, you're turning...

out like your mum" or "you're dad used to do all these horrible things and I'm seeing part of your personality that's like his and its worrying me because dadadada..." so I totally get what u mean! I love them both though c: